kelly fox wrote:

I'm battaling a husband thats addicted to porn and need advice.I can't help but wan't a husband that wants me vs porn.I want to be in love again and have that lust again.It's been 19 long years one 8 year old daughter.I'ts only time before she walks in on him i have plenty of times.I'ts time for me to prtect my daughter and find love again don't you think?

 




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Sandeep

December 18, 2015

Try to remember 2 tgnhis: He does not get to move on as if nothing happened. He still has to live with the fact that she was unfaithful to him, and that will always haunt him. My husband cheated on me I chose to stay and work it out, and I have forgiven him, but I will never forget, and I am still suspiscious of phone calls he gets where I don’t recognize the number, or when he takes the call in another room. The other thing you need to remember is that he has children with this woman. He may be missing them so much that he is willing to do almost anything to be a family again, even if it means being with a woman he can’t entirely trust. I can’t give you any magic words to make you feel better, but I would suggest you tell him that he is to no longer have any contact with you. If he is texting you while he’s on his way out of the driveway, and you are texting back, then he knows he still has a safety net. Tell him you don’t look back, it’s me or her, but not both. When my husband and I were still working tgnhis out, he told me he envisioned his future that he would buy a house near where we currently live, and we would still be friends and would see each other from time to time. I told him there was no way I could possibly stand by and watch him move on with his life, and that if we ended up divorced, he would never see me again (we don’t have kids together). I really think that was the turning point in our relationship. He had this little fantasy in his mind that we would go our separate ways and it would be all sunshine and lollipops. When he realized that wasn’t the way it was going to be, he re-evaluated what he really wanted.

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