When you read the bible, you realize that sexual sin issues and strongholds are NOTHING new. It is an area that will always be satan's battleground this side of heaven. He horrifically takes the beauty of what God created for GOOD and twists it and darkens it only to bring destruction. That is why, as followers of Christ, we need to hold on the the GOOD and expose the bad by speaking TRUTH about such things.
However, most churches just skim the surface and/or avoid addressing these subjects all together and the TRUTH that brings freedom is being replaced with the LIES that are holding many captive.
Unfortunately, it is so difficult for there to be transparency within the body of Christ when it comes to sexual sins and addictions. If an alter call is given for those struggling, the alter, in most churches, will remain empty. It is far too shameful and risky. WHY is that? In a world where we are bombarded with sexual images and promiscuity, it really makes NO sense!
Just walk through the halls of your local high school campus. NO fear there! Teenagers are talking about it and not even batting an eye. Young girls are becoming comfortable sending pictures of their nude bodies or "selfies" to their boyfriends. Sexting is now the "popular" was to communicate. Our young people are being trained at an early age that sexiness is what's important and brings significance to who you are. Our young boys are believing it, as well! Girls bodies are only objects to be glorified! As a senior girl in high school if you are not happy with how your are built, parents are giving the gift of boob jobs to only confirm what the world is telling them. UGH!!!! We are all buying into what the world says is important.
NO doubt, the pathway to destruction is an easy one. It starts with lust...with one look, with one selfish thought. Why arn't we talking about these things?
Where is the LIGHT that the church is called to be? Could it be that our light is being overshadowed by gray, luke-warm Christianity?
WHY isn't the church a safe place to address such things? Our young people WANT answers and guidance and WE as a whole are failing them in a huge way! WHY do we make it such a taboo subject when it is ALL around us?
These issues are REAL and they are destroying families and tearing our nation apart including "christian" homes.
Statistics prove that the majority of those addicted to porn are NOT outside the church any longer, but sitting in our church pews, leading our youth groups, teaching our children, and even preaching from our pulpits. Last I read was that 52% of the men sitting in our congregations are struggling with porn. That does NOT include all the young people who are struggling!! What? 52% is HUGE especially when you think of all of the wives, families and homes that are affected. These men are our spiritual leaders!
Yes, satan knows exactly what he is doing! It's the secret sin in our churches today! You can dress your Sunday best, speak your christianeese, attend every church service, give a great sermon, all without anyone ever knowing about the bondage that holds you captive. Sadly, even though the stats say that at least half of the men in our congregations are struggling, it seems that the church as a whole doesn't want to believe it nor address it! What's it going to take?
The TRUTH is, our men and boys are being bombarded with sexual JUNK everyday! How DOES a man live in this society and remain pure? Are they being equipped to handle the enemy's seduction or are they just being patted on the back and sent on their way as prime targets?
The silence has left ALL of us vulnerable and an open door for the enemy and his destruction to invade us to the very core. Shouldn't Pastors EVERYWHERE be speaking TRUTH about these issues and WARNING the body of Christ about these types of seductions? NOT just once a year, but continually!!! After all, let's be REAL....what do most men and yes, even "christian" men think about? What do most teenagers think about. SEX. Now days you can't avoid it with the way the world blatantly displays it!!! Our silence is allowing the dark seeds of this world to permeate and grow in the confines of our own churches and homes! Seriously, are we being courageous or cowards? Think about it!
Our culture handles it just the opposite. NO guessing what the majority boldly proclaims! They make it quite clear with no apologies! The MORE skin the better. Sex sales! THEY are not ashamed of it at all!! The bombard us with sexual images and innuendos day in and day out. It's ALL over the TV, the movies, in the media, the news, sporting events, billboards, on the internet....it is EVERYWHERE! The world is portraying a twisted, tainted, view of sexuality and they have everyone's attentions, including those who claim to be followers of Christ. They ARE influencing our hearts and we just accept it without saying a word.
The longer the church keeps silent the MORE casualties there will be in this WAR against the enemy!
How are our boys AND men going to know how to handle this kind of assault if they are not equipped? How will they learn the proper way to view women? ALL men need to be equipped BEFORE the addictions start and families are destroyed!! Isn't that what the church is for...the equipping of the saints? How about being PRO-ACTIVE instead of having to be reactive when a marriage is on the brink of divorce because of such things! Instead of practicing damage control why not educate, encourage, and speak TRUTH in hopes to HELP them avoid the minefields and the traps that satan sets for them on a DAILY basis?
This rant is long, I know and I have repeated some things over. However, it is my heart's cry to encourage Pastors, leaders and parents everywhere to be BOLD, to speak the REAL hard TRUTHS, and to expose the LIES of the enemy when it comes to sexual sin issues. Last time I checked, God takes it pretty seriously, why shouldn't we?
Let's get the conversations started! Let's talk about the MANY consequences that the world ignores! I won't go there on this rant but there are not only spiritual consequences but physical consequences, as well. UGH!!! There is a high price to be paid alright for our silence and you can be assured that our future generations will be paying for it long after we are gone if we continue to put our head in the sand. These issues are NOT going away, actually I am confident that the worst is yet to come! Then what?
The TRUTH is we need to teach AND equip with regards to these kinds of issues as boldly and unashamedly as the world portrays them! We need to take back the values that exemplify the character of CHRIST!
Sadly, instead of finding FREEDOM from such things at the alters of our churches, in community with believers...those held captive are walking away bound, wounded and fearful of being exposed. If our alters are empty because men and women are afraid to admit they are struggling (because MANY are), then something desperately needs to change! We need to create an environment of FREEDOM and HOPE where they can be REAL and transparent. Where else can a man or woman turn who desires HELP and needs deliverance and support? THEY NEED JESUS. They need the church to act and be as CHRIST intended. A place they can run to, not run from. Just sayin'. What do YOU think?
1 Cor 6:18 FLEE from sexual immorality.
Revelation 21:8 But the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters and all liars--they will be consigned to the fiery lake of burning sulfur.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 For this is the will of God, your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to CONTROL his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the gentiles who do not know God.
Ephesians 5:5 FOR YOU CAN BE SURE OF THIS, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure or who is covetous (that is, an idolater) has no inheritance in the Kingdom of Christ and God.
1 John 1:9 If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.