Support for girls?

We were looking around the site- so glad to find it, by the way- and we noticed that it was focuse more around guys.

Is it primarily a "guy" site? or can us girls benefit from it as well? Or is there a more appropriate site for girls?

Thanks so much!




4 Comments

Rick

March 25, 2013

We did not design this as a guy site, but I can see what you are saying. A lot of our stories and comments are from ladies, but we have not developed the issue as it pertains to women as fully as we intend to, yet. We are trying to gain in that area, but we admit that we are behind.

Maybe you can help. Are you personally struggling with pornography? Do you have a story to tell? Would you be interested in possibly letting us video that story? We are definitely looking for more video content from women. Do you know anyone that may want to contribute? Are there any other ladies out that that may want to contribute?

We realize this is an issue that women struggle with as well. The numbers are growing at an alarming rate. Our 30 Day Devotional Journal is gender neutral and is a Biblical plan for guarding the heart and mind and putting a plan in place to resist this temptation when it comes. You may want to check it out.

But again, all female contributions, help, and ideas are welcome. Thanks for bringing this up!!!

LB

March 25, 2013

I am so thankful that folks in the Christian community who truly care about reality are trying to provide help to fellow believers and others who are struggling with these “not-appropriate-to-talk-about” sins. My marriage is struggling with all these issues.

Please DO include focus on what girls/women are facing. The urge towards sexual sin is strong fo us too, and not too easily addressed. Thank you, thank you for creating this website – God bless your work! I just found it.

Rick

March 25, 2013

A few other places (as ladies) you may want to look for help and support:
reachinghurtingwomen.com
flowerdust.net
puredesire.org
No Stones Unturned by Marnie Ferree
Hope After Betrayal by Meg Wilson

Julie

March 25, 2013

I, too, am a female who has been addicted to pornography for a very long time (about 15 years). I have always had a thirsty appetite for sex at a very young age, and have seen my addiction escalate from what would be called as “innocent masturbation” to now a strong addiction to some extreme and explicit pornography.

I feel disgusted with myself.

This is actually the first time I’ve ever “told” anyone about my addiction. I didn’t think it was normal for a woman to be like this. My family would be extremely ashamed of me. I was raised in a good, loving Christian home… what is wrong with me?

But, to the first anonymous poster, you are not alone, if you are a female addicted to pornography. I have struggled and battled for this for years. I’ve asked for God’s help so many times, I feel like He has given up on me :(

Thank you for the links Rick. I am going to check those out.

-disgusted with he

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